HOW TO GET OVER HIM IN 1 DAY

‘Girl, You Are Just Not into Him’

Let's be honest, we’ve all had a broken heart. The actual science is getting over that ‘classy’ gentlemen (I'm being sarcastic) that left you kinda bombed out about yourself and your feelings. But you got this sis.

First, something you have to realize is the fact that you are a human and you are allowed to have feelings. We get you, you need to get out of that toxicity fast, but the key to moving on and getting over him is knowing and feeling where it hurts, and just let that sh*t go. Remember that breakups are ok, starting over and focusing on you is ok. What is not okay staying in a place where you are not happy, valued, or unappreciated.

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1. Erase all evidence

Eliminate everything that reminds you of him. Past is in the past. Stop thinking on that coffee he always ordered and that place he liked to go to on the weekends. Hide/throw away anything you have of him or reminds you of him. Also a social media cleanse is required, we want to avoid that 30 weeks ago like from him in 6 months when he misses you (cause he will) moment.

2. Selfcare from inside and out

Invest in yourself, dedicate all the free time you’ll have now on becoming a better person. Get back on that daily routine, skin care routine, yoga, working out (get hotter and healthier), or anything that you felt you left behind recently. All of this will help you fuel your soul and heart. And personally this is many favorite part of the journey because, it is when you remind yourself what a girl boss you actually are.

3. Having hobbies is cool

Again, you’ll have a lot a new time in your hands, and to keep the mind busy, you might as well start a new hobby. We don’t want the mind to have free time to think about ‘you know who’, or atleast for now, it is ME ME ME period at the moment. I would suggest you to start journaling, or photography, or even cooking and baking, it involves alot a thinking but also helps you expand the mind, experiment, and go places you have never being before.

4. A little party never killed nobody

Go out, have fun, girl nights out are honestly a medicine for a broken heart. They will always be there for you, no matter what. Also, meet new people and be open to new possibilities. Im not telling you to have wayyy toooo muchhhh funnnn (i mean you do you boo), but i am telling you to get out of your comfort zone and discover how fun it actually is the world outside the relationship bubble you where before. Being single is fun and honestly, we all need that time for yourself at some point. So enjoy it to the fullest.

Love,

Cece